While I'm working this morning , I came up the thought of my relationship with him. I just can't believe how I put up with this this 2 years LDR like cats and dogs. I don't know if it is normal for a couple when they are far from each other , they always fight with nonsense things? If he is getting mad or upset , he ignores me sometimes it took 3 days before we become friends again and then back to normal. But I can't remember when was the last time he never upset with me. Like this one, blogging is one of my new hobby and he can't barely see me online and he gets upset and mad with me. And when I'm online he is attending somethings, and we didn't talk to each other.
Its preferable to do my way, and let him do with his way. It's difficult to put up specially he is younger than me, I am so pathetic to think about it. It's easier for me if I'm the first one to approach rather than waiting him when he will going to talk with me.
At the end of it all, man is just a man. It's easier to flirt with them, give the best shot to make them cool and give responses of what you want. Even of hectic schedules, we should send them sweet messages like e-card emails, text messages of call them. I usually send text messages and let him know what I am doing, what I feel, and most of the time in the evening we talk in the messenger told him what I am thinking while I am working. Or sometimes, I usually make slides show or browse some vedio music over you tube and post it on his facebook. and send him message that I posted something on his profile. That usually I does..
"What if funky, confusing, gray, lonely days were just part of a "system" that, in turn, created bright, rich, happy, friendly days? What if they were just meant to give deeper elements of your creativity a rest? What if they were deliberately crafted holidays, of a sort, devised by your inner psyche to relieve you from the pressure of artificial expectations?
Would you still bemoan them, wonder what's wrong with you, or fear that they'll never end?
I'm in my 2 years with my boyfriend "fiancee" only a relationship that connect us through our modern technology. I am reaping the reward and I am safe of any danger now. It was difficult at the start and the more the relationship grow , I found out some secrets and lies. I am just being smart to knew it. It wasn't so terrible as I told you earlier in this blogs.
Just always remember that the people you are dealing with are not (not less, not more) real people in your everyday offline life. Be smart, just treat them as you wish to be treated online. Recognize that others online not necessarily treat you as well as you treat them. Not everyone on the Net share will share your values or your sensitivities. If you are a frequent chat room addict hehehe, choose your place or groups. Because there are some people using abusive bad words in the chat room. Choose the group where you feel comfortable. And keep in mind that there will have a possibility to develop a strong relationship online when you are a frequent chatters. A relationship that are different in quality and character from anything you've experience in real. And beware that people online frequently as I said, lie about their identity. They give beyond giving false name to go with an online ID. The more ID they have, the more people they can deceit off. And remember once again that NET also littered with people who have spent a very long time getting to know someone "intimately" only to find they've been mislead. Physical presence, social context and everyday experience are the missing things having online relationship. If you don't remember , I will reminded you that the person you get to know online is not completely on the picture. But then, be aware still of falling in love and giving your personal details like bank account, visa card number etc..Think of it now whom those people.hehehe!!!:)