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on being here and there...

While I'm working this morning , I came up the thought of my relationship with him. I just can't believe how I put up with this this 2 years LDR like cats and dogs. I don't know if it is normal for a couple when they are far from each other , they always fight with nonsense things? If he is getting mad or upset , he ignores me sometimes it took 3 days before we become friends again and then back to normal. But I can't remember when was the last time he never upset with me. Like this one, blogging is one of my new hobby and he can't barely see me online and he gets upset and mad with me. And when I'm online he is attending somethings, and we didn't talk to each other.

Its preferable to do my way, and let him do with his way. It's difficult to put up specially he is younger than me, I am so pathetic to think about it. It's easier for me if I'm the first one to approach rather than waiting him when he will going to talk with me.

At the end of it all, man is just a man. It's easier to flirt with them, give the best shot to make them cool and give responses of what you want. Even of hectic schedules, we should send them sweet messages like e-card emails, text messages of call them. I usually send text messages and let him know what I am doing, what I feel, and most of the time in the evening we talk in the messenger told him what I am thinking while I am working. Or sometimes, I usually make slides show or browse some vedio music over you tube and post it on his facebook. and send him message that I posted something on his profile. That usually I does..


on my feelings and thought photo


"What if funky, confusing, gray, lonely days were just part of a "system" that, in turn, created bright, rich, happy, friendly days? What if they were just meant to give deeper elements of your creativity a rest? What if they were deliberately crafted holidays, of a sort, devised by your inner psyche to relieve you from the pressure of artificial expectations?
Would you still bemoan them, wonder what's wrong with you, or fear that they'll never end?
Or, would they kind of tickle you pink?"
- The Universe [via Notes from the Universe]


smarty, bitchy wise

I'm in my 2 years with my boyfriend "fiancee" only a relationship that connect us through our modern technology. I am reaping the reward and I am safe of any danger now. It was difficult at the start and the more the relationship grow , I found out some secrets and lies. I am just being smart to knew it. It wasn't so terrible as I told you earlier in this blogs.

 

Just always remember that the people you are dealing with are not  (not less, not more) real people in your everyday offline life. Be smart, just treat them as you wish to be treated online. Recognize that others  online not necessarily treat you as well as you treat them. Not everyone on the Net share will share your values or your sensitivities. If you are a frequent chat room addict hehehe, choose your place or groups. Because there are some people using abusive bad words in the chat room. Choose the group where you feel comfortable. And keep in mind that there will have a possibility to develop a strong relationship online when you are a frequent chatters. A relationship that are different in quality and character from anything you've experience in real. And beware  that people online frequently as I said, lie about their identity. They give beyond giving false name to go with an online ID. The more ID they have, the more people they can deceit off. And remember once again that NET also littered with people who have spent a very long time getting to know someone "intimately" only to find they've been mislead. Physical presence, social context and everyday experience are the missing things having online relationship. If you don't remember , I will reminded you that the person you get to know online is not completely on the picture. But then, be aware still of falling in love and giving your personal details like bank account, visa card number etc..Think of it now whom those people.hehehe!!!:)



Tragedy of Love

They say that only time can heal the wounds of a broken heart. That time makes it easier to accept the loss of the people we love.

It is a chain that all of us go through, falling in love, getting hurt, getting hurt and vowing not to love again, promising not to love again and becoming miserable all our lives. It‘s not easy getting up on our feet after a crippling fall but there is no other way but to stand up and move on. Nobody wants to become unhappy all his life. All of us know how love can bring magic into our lives. Have you ever realized how good it felt waking up in the morning knowing that somewhere out there, there’s a person also thinking of you and feels exactly the way you do? Doesn’t it feel good looking forward to being that person and spending memorable moments with him? Love brings joy beyond compare and that warm and sparking glow in each of us. Love brings us to the top of the world where we can conquer just about any obstacle that may come along our way. It is a great feeling love is. There is probably nothing else in this world that can compare to this. There may be many of us who feel that love passed us by and finding someone we can share our life with seems to be such a remote possibility. We watch trains go by as time swiftly drifts away from us. We may be in control of our lives but we felt somewhat helpless in our relationships. There is nothing permanent in this world and not even those we cherished would be with us forever. There is no guarantee that comes with loving. It is always a risk getting involved with someone but it is a risk that we have to take if we want to find real happiness for there is no gain without pain. There is no permanent without commitment and there is no lasting love without constant sacrifice. The tragedy of love is in getting hurt. The tragedy of getting hurt is in not wanting to love again and tragedy of not wanting to love again is in being alone all of our lives. If it is what we want to be, then we could just stay in our shell and be miserably forgotten. But if it is love we choose, then there is the promise of a new life. The joy in being able to share that life with someone and the hope of finding something beautiful and keeping it forever.


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