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6 Helpful Tips for Choosing the Best Online Dating Service
Recipe for Happy Marriage
Since my topic here are dating, weddings, marriages and love, let me share with you this recipe for Happy Marriage .. Full your man with this recipe. Naks! Here's the recipe I snagged from Weddings By Gloria.Digest it and apply to your relationship, not just for marriage couples! This is for everybody who wants to get married or in a relationship.
Recipe for Happy Marriage
1 cup consideration
1 cup courtesy
2 cup fulls flattery carefully concealed
1 gallon faith and trust each other
2 cup full praise
1 small pinch of in-laws
1 reasonable budget, a generous dash of cooperation
3 teaspoon pure extract of "I'm sorry"
1 cup contentment
1 cup each confident and encouragement
1 large or several small hobbies
1 cup blindness to the other faults
Flavor with frequent portions of recreation and a dash of happy memories. Stir well and remove any specks of jealousy, temper or criticism. Sweeten well with generous portion of love and keep warm with a steady flame of devotion. Never serve cold shoulder.
Find Love Asian Personals
I was stumble this Asian dating online that allows you to meet or talk Asian singles or Asian girls and men around the world for Asian dating. You can start to get in touch with them by creating a free dating profile on their website. This site help you to find your soulmate. If you're a woman you can view men profile and go to the list of potentials and narrow down the individual of your choice. It is the same if you are a man. You can update your profiles, and photos too.
If you want to get involved with serious relationship online, or want to meet your soulmate. Be part of this Asian dating. Visit their website at www.findloveasia.com
Spark a connection with Chemistry
In the early days of online dating, you'd sign in head over to the profile section, then start browsing for someone who caught your eye. If your were a man, you'd send an email or two, hoping to get a message back. If you happened to be a woman , you'd be overwhelmed at the torrent messages in your in box.
There is a dating site now, designed especially for people who are looking for help in getting to know someone online so the first date feels like you're meeting for the second time. But how it works such way? Chemistry makes different to some other dating websites because first they want you to take the test - Chemistry Personality Test and provide an in-depth look of who you are and what you want in a relationship. Then they'll send you free personalized matches to be introduced to your potential chemistry. They'll help to get to know your matches online before meeting you meet them by offering fun and unique activities to flirt and discover more about each other. They even provide information and recommendations for your matches personality type. And lastly chemistry enhance privacy, it is a closed community. Means only members of the chemistry community can view your profile and initiate contact with you.
So what are you waiting for , empower your love at chemistry.com, and have a unique conversation-starting activities, personality insights, and personality tips help you get to know and connect with someone. That way, by the time, you're ready to meet for the first date you'll know she/he is want to play poker, loves sport or music , travel or adventure. She/he just have a dog, or you just learned how to swim.
Successful men don't like to date up
"Successful men don't date up. They are intimidated by wealthy women unless they are blue bloods. Successful men want to always take care of their women, and that means financially."
I have read the Wall Street Journal from a millionaire matchmaker Patti Stanger , that well-off men don't want to date a wealthy women, unless the women inherited that money of course. She might know a certain brand of millionaires, but I'm not buying the idea that every rich dude finds a successful women intimidating. I am not a rich girl but I think, hardworking self -made female millionaires that are often intimidating to these men. That's my point of view.
On the other hand, I cannot generalize for all successful man. Because there are a lot, out there too who married with successful women and double the income what he makes. Hmmm...As we absolutely know that women loves to be pampered by their men. And men loves to provide for and take care of their "woman". Take out for dinner, buying jewelry, etc.. provide that make her happy and satisfy. Those are the things they can do and feel manly.
Nevertheless, who doesn't want a luxury life? With all the good things that makes you happy. It is always a dream of everybody. And its intimidating to have a guy to pay and give everything for you. Isn't it?
Have you experience like that? How do you feel? Did you ask yourself how can you repay him?
My Encounter in Dating Websites
I know most of us here heard about internet dating. Women looks for men, or men looks for women. For fun, pastime, or partner for a lifetime or whatever reason they might have is their business.
I was one of those women looking for partners in life. Registering different foreign website just to meet a man of my life. Encountered different races, culture and tradition. Encountered rudeness and nastiness and a lot more.Though it was only a conversation but it made me sick. Some also were very nice to talked with, but when the conversation get closer, they confess that some Filipinos they chatted are asking for money. Being a Filipino I felt shamed, I know that not everybody are doing such things.
I felt bad for mysel as well to Filipino women dating foreigner's online who's intention is only to find a partner of their life. I registered as male member and pretending I was a man. It was really difficult but I managed to finished my mission. I proved that there are some oriental girls asking for money. And mind you, not only Filipinos.
I spoke one Filipino woman , married to American guy. I was very interested to know everything why she married that guy the fact it was too old for her. She said she married that guy because of financial problems that her family needed. She want to get out from the Philippines to support her family, to support her children. Because she said she was a single mother. She didn't feel anything for him at the start but ended a burning love. She was really beautiful that everybody can hook up her beauty. I don't know if she is really telling me the truth but that was the conversation. She has a lot of friends married to foreigners due to financial constraint but ended in love and happy ever after. And I asked her why foreigner loves Filipino women. As I told, Filipino women are caring, affectionate, responsible specially to their family.
With my point of view Filipino women marrying foreigner is a part of our colonial mentality that played the role of our society. Like we're buying imported products rather than patronizing our local ones. But no matter what your choices are, still it's your free will to their options. I just felt really sad the bad image of Filipino women in dating world. The reason why I stopped chatting with foreigners.
I just encountered a bad situation that thought me a lesson. But I know they are still wonderful and kind men there online. Just be aware to those people you talked with. I believe what goes around, comes around.
on our simple plan...
Sounds odd for everybody but me and my boyfriend "fiancee plan to settle down by the time we will be there (Philippines). Everything happen merely on the internet but it seems like we are close for each other. read this. Our only lifeline with this relationship is our computer and our phone. Nothing is impossible I think if you both interested and make an effort with the relationship you have. I agree maintaining a long distance relationship is very difficult. Some of my friends like Long Distance Relationship. They said , the less you talk and see each other, the less you have fights and arguments. Is it true? Here are some Do's and Dont's.
Probably, my friends, followers if I have (yes, I did have) hehehe!!! are scared reading with my simple revelation about wedding plans. Why? I hasn't meet the person, and we plan the wedding we wanted to be. With this society or world , I supposed it's not new especially those OFW , like me spending most of their time with their job to earn money while working abroad. While working they are sneaking around in dating websites to meet the partner of their life. I'm one of them hehehe and if they found their perfect partner they thought , some plane to meet first , and some plans to prepare a wedding and when they'll meet it's ended up in the Altar of Matrimony.. You might like the story of Alex and Ems.
Going back on our simple plan...
We want only a simple wedding yet elegant and memorable. A fairy tale theme,that match our destiny, with turquoise blue fuchsia pink motif. hmmmm.
I posted the inspirational board of the motif...
Probably, my friends, followers if I have (yes, I did have) hehehe!!! are scared reading with my simple revelation about wedding plans. Why? I hasn't meet the person, and we plan the wedding we wanted to be. With this society or world , I supposed it's not new especially those OFW , like me spending most of their time with their job to earn money while working abroad. While working they are sneaking around in dating websites to meet the partner of their life. I'm one of them hehehe and if they found their perfect partner they thought , some plane to meet first , and some plans to prepare a wedding and when they'll meet it's ended up in the Altar of Matrimony.. You might like the story of Alex and Ems.
Going back on our simple plan...
We want only a simple wedding yet elegant and memorable. A fairy tale theme,that match our destiny, with turquoise blue fuchsia pink motif. hmmmm.
I posted the inspirational board of the motif...
on being here and there...
While I'm working this morning , I came up the thought of my relationship with him. I just can't believe how I put up with this this 2 years LDR like cats and dogs. I don't know if it is normal for a couple when they are far from each other , they always fight with nonsense things? If he is getting mad or upset , he ignores me sometimes it took 3 days before we become friends again and then back to normal. But I can't remember when was the last time he never upset with me. Like this one, blogging is one of my new hobby and he can't barely see me online and he gets upset and mad with me. And when I'm online he is attending somethings, and we didn't talk to each other.
Its preferable to do my way, and let him do with his way. It's difficult to put up specially he is younger than me, I am so pathetic to think about it. It's easier for me if I'm the first one to approach rather than waiting him when he will going to talk with me.
At the end of it all, man is just a man. It's easier to flirt with them, give the best shot to make them cool and give responses of what you want. Even of hectic schedules, we should send them sweet messages like e-card emails, text messages of call them. I usually send text messages and let him know what I am doing, what I feel, and most of the time in the evening we talk in the messenger told him what I am thinking while I am working. Or sometimes, I usually make slides show or browse some vedio music over you tube and post it on his facebook. and send him message that I posted something on his profile. That usually I does..
smarty, bitchy wise
I'm in my 2 years with my boyfriend "fiancee" only a relationship that connect us through our modern technology. I am reaping the reward and I am safe of any danger now. It was difficult at the start and the more the relationship grow , I found out some secrets and lies. I am just being smart to knew it. It wasn't so terrible as I told you earlier in this blogs.
Just always remember that the people you are dealing with are not (not less, not more) real people in your everyday offline life. Be smart, just treat them as you wish to be treated online. Recognize that others online not necessarily treat you as well as you treat them. Not everyone on the Net share will share your values or your sensitivities. If you are a frequent chat room addict hehehe, choose your place or groups. Because there are some people using abusive bad words in the chat room. Choose the group where you feel comfortable. And keep in mind that there will have a possibility to develop a strong relationship online when you are a frequent chatters. A relationship that are different in quality and character from anything you've experience in real. And beware that people online frequently as I said, lie about their identity. They give beyond giving false name to go with an online ID. The more ID they have, the more people they can deceit off. And remember once again that NET also littered with people who have spent a very long time getting to know someone "intimately" only to find they've been mislead. Physical presence, social context and everyday experience are the missing things having online relationship. If you don't remember , I will reminded you that the person you get to know online is not completely on the picture. But then, be aware still of falling in love and giving your personal details like bank account, visa card number etc..Think of it now whom those people.hehehe!!!:)
essential guide to find your own true love
hey guys want to share you this quiz on how do we really tell if he is just not into to you..how to stop wasting time on a DUD( definitely unworkable dude) Just give your boyfriend one point for each of this 16 characteristics he exhibit...
After 19 months of strongly steady.... haven't meet him yet:
- Eager to see you 1
- Reluctant to leave you
- Wants regular consistent contact, asks for dates 1
- Interested in you and your life 1
- Wants to be helpful
- Is verbally and physically affectionate
- Wants to be romantic and sexual with you 1
- Texts, emails or calls regularly 1
- Acts like you are very special; doesn’t really want to date others 1
- If you are dating other men--willing to hang in there
- Becoming more attentive and loving over time
- Becoming more open to sharing his feelings and thoughts 1
- Becoming more open to sharing his living space 1
- Becoming more open to sharing his social life with friends and family members. 1
- Saying he loves you 1
- Saying he wants a future with you 1
TOTAL = 11 - he just may be the one , yeheyyyyy!!!!
Please be really honest with yourself as you rate your guy. When in doubt, ask your closest friends to help you. If your man has a score of 4 or less, it probably indicates that he is just not that into you. If he gets 5-10 points the dude may have possibilities. Eleven (11) or more means he just may be the One. Look for more of these qualities over time to make a clearer assessment.
If your guy has a low score, you do not need to cut him off right away. A guy who really is into you will stay the course and win you.
Bottom line: if you want to find the One, look for a man who provides regular and consistent contact that gets better over time. You should find yourself continually surprised at how he fills your needs to be chosen, appreciated, romanced and celebrated for who you are. Envision this kind of love and choose guys who are that into you.
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